Separate Identities
I’d like to say, I’m not new to the online game. I’ve been online for many years in many different social settings, starting with chat rooms and having now progressed to Twitter and the like. And, in case you’ve been not paying attention or living under a rock, I’m sure you’ve figured out that my avi in places is not really me, and that my name is probably not Janie Danger.
I’ll give you a hint. It’s not.
I’ve been asked a few times about why I use a different name online than I do publicly which kind of shocks me because in this day and age, you can never be too cautious. That being said, the career I’ve chosen is one in the public sector. I constantly will have the public looking at me and how I act, what I do and don’t do, and be criticized for it whether it’s right, wrong or otherwise. In short, I cannot have a potential employer find this, let alone a member of the community. If that were to happen at any point, I would probably have a ruined career and be next to unemployable, not to mention I’d be fired or reprimanded at the very least. I would not be allowed to act like I do on Twitter in any public capacity. Hell, even if my neighbor is an asshole and gets in my face and yells at me, I can’t do that back because of the image my career choice represents. It sucks, sure, but I knew this a long time ago.
Another thing is I’m not very conventional when it comes to relationships and sex and the like. I can’t just do regular vanilla sex for long and be happy with it. I might go into this further at another point in time, but for now I’m leaving it like that and you’re more than welcome to ask if you like. Needless to say, most people are not OK with people who deviate from anything least of all the sexual ‘norm’. You know, because only weirdos and crazies have anything other than missionary style, slow, soft sex, right? I don’t want to limit myself to one person that I’m going to have sex with for the rest of my life and that’s not one sided either. Do I plan on telling them that on a lie detector? Hell no! As far as that’s concerned, I’ve only slept with 3 guys, and never done anything other than regular ‘normal’ sex. No sir, none of that new, kinky shit. Not at all. (I might have to practice that answer a bit before it becomes believable!)
With Janie Danger, I can let my hair down. I can be me, really and truly, which is something I can’t do normally which is why I will never get rid of this account unless it’s compromised or in danger of being found out (In which case, wouldn’t matter as it is because there’s some computer nerd that can pull up cached images and such so, I’m fucked either way). So, it’s mostly nothing personal, it’s just for my own safety and well being.
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